If you forgive yourself, are you being too easy on yourself, like you're pretending it wasn't that bad? But if you don't forgive yourself, are you just punishing yourself forever, even though you can't change anything?
Which one is worse: forgiving too quickly and forgetting who you were, or never forgiving and never letting yourself become someone new?
If you forgive yourself, are you being too easy on yourself, like you're pretending it wasn't that bad? But if you don't forgive yourself, are you just punishing yourself forever, even though you can't change anything?